Where Do I Even Start With a Tiny House!?

Macy M10 comments27497 views

So you think ‘tiny’ is for you?  Now where to begin!?!

I get the question very often ‘where do I possibly begin with this tiny house dream?’ or ‘I have no experienced builders in my life, can I still go tiny?’ or other variations of the same thing.  Here is my suggested order of operations and some links to important resources.

Step 1

Decide if you could do it, actually LIVE in that small of a space.  Maybe try minimizing your things, draw out a space in your current house with masking tape on the floor, see if you can fit what you want to fit.  Do scale models on cutouts if that helps, see if it will physically work for you.

Step 2

Organize your thoughts on ‘why’ you want to minimize. Be ready to answer other people’s questions about it, you will likely get a few.  I find the best way to be ready for this is to focus on the positives. When asked why you’re going to go smaller be able to reference your reasons.  Focus more on what tiny will enable rather than ‘take away’. You can look at this post for ideas.  There is also a great post written on the top ten most asked tiny house questions which you can find here just to prepare for those.  It’s easier to respond when you’re ready for the questions. Remember, every person asking a question is generally responding (negatively or positively) out of concern for you. If you are confident they will be confident. If you are not, they probably won’t be either.  Take it as a learning process for both of you.

Step 3

Find your helpers (emotionally, if not physically) and supporters.  Find the people who believe in you and hang out with them more!  (there is a great group of these supporters on Facebook HERE).  You will need those people as you go along to remind you why you’re getting into this, building a house is a long process that tests your patience.  Helpers are worth their weight in gold.

Step 4

Make a top ten list of priorities you MUST have in your tiny house.  Do not limit yourself.  Write them down, order them in level of priority.  Mine had things like ‘oversized shower with unlimited hot water’, ‘Room for a Great Dane to comfortably live and move around’, ‘Room for my creative outlets (painting, sewing, sculpting)’, ‘Comfortable for 2 adults’, ‘double kitchen sink’, ‘king sized bed’, etc.  unless what is on your list is an 12 seat sectional couch and room to entertain 20 you will most likely be able to accommodate things with a little creativity.

Step 5

Research, research, research!  Get books, look at blogs. Google search the attributes on your list to figure out how to make it happen ‘double basin sink in tiny house’.  Save those pictures in a file or on Pinterest etc., however works best for you.  THIS book was just released today and I honestly feel like it is one of the best resources out there for how to go about making the decisions you’ll want to consider, Ethan did a great job on it!

Step 6

Decide if you are going to do it yourself or hire it done.  If hiring it done you can find builders close to you by looking HERE, show them your saved images and they will be able to work out a design with you for the right price, the more info you have going in the more accurately they can quote you!

If doing it yourself you can buy other people’s plans if they suit you (you can do this too to get accurate quotes from builders) (for what you can expect to get in a set of plans click HERE).  Find a house you like and see if they have plans available. It’s fairly simple to modify plans if they aren’t 100% right for you.

Or you can make your own plan!  You can use Sketchup which is a free software to put actual dimensions to things (there is a lot of room to fudge fixture sizes on graph paper, though it is a great starting point!). You can also download some basic, dimensionally correct-ish cut outs for free so you can start laying out your tiny house to scale in a very tactile way (the way I think best!).

Step 7

Search Youtube to learn the skills you need.  Search ‘advanced framing techniques’, ‘How to drywall’, ‘how to do simple plumbing’, ‘simple electrical’.  There are great books and resources to learn skills needed HERE. I even made courses that cover the basic information in depth there. If you are new to some of these things I certainly suggest paying a local professional a small fee to check your work as you go, things like electrical and plumbing.  Nothing about a tiny house is very hard it is just very daunting when you look at all the steps together.  

Step 8

Find a place to build.  Maybe your families land, may be your landlords yard, may be a rental you connected with on Craigslist.  There are a lot of options for this component but it’s a crucial detail if you’re going to do it yourself!

Step 9

START!  Break it down small step-by-small-step parts and commit to making one little step happen daily/every other day.  You can plan a whole lifetime but there will always be surprises to work around.  At a point you have to make the big step forward into commitment.  Stay flexible, let things change and adapt as you go forward, but GO FORWARD!

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  1. Thank you. I am very much at the beginning of the journey I have been babbling on about for years, and I really appreciate reading this concise and well written list!

  2. Thank you I really just getting into this but my heart says this right for me my two sons are grown and I really need to do me. My whole life has been about them, they are fine now. Want travel and this is the best way.

    1. You are not alone in these feelings! You did a great job getting them to adulthood, now have fun and see the world! It’s a really great life choice in my opinion! Please let me know if I can ever help you on your path!

  3. At first, I thought the whole concept of living in a tiny space was LOONY, but . . . A home I can call mine where ever I go; that could be good. A home affordable enough that I can do more than work just to keep a roof over my head; that would be good. A home that is all about what I like and what I need; amazing. Add my 8 (yes, eight) cats, and I am starting my priority list.

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